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enitharmon) wrote2007-08-09 03:28 pm
enitharmon) wrote2007-08-09 03:28 pm
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On the horns of a dilemma
I could go and play bridge tonight.
If I did that I'd meet people and talk to them, and generally be distracted, and that would be a Good Thing.
On the other hand, with my self-confidence very low, it's likely that I would play badly, and that would further undermine my self-confidence and could leave me feeling even worse. That would be a Bad Thing.
I could stay in on my own, and cry, and get drunk, and feel sorry for myself. That would be gratifying but, I suspect, a Bad Idea.
I can't decide what to do. Advice, please, Agony Aunties (and Uncles)
If I did that I'd meet people and talk to them, and generally be distracted, and that would be a Good Thing.
On the other hand, with my self-confidence very low, it's likely that I would play badly, and that would further undermine my self-confidence and could leave me feeling even worse. That would be a Bad Thing.
I could stay in on my own, and cry, and get drunk, and feel sorry for myself. That would be gratifying but, I suspect, a Bad Idea.
I can't decide what to do. Advice, please, Agony Aunties (and Uncles)